In a small bowl, whisk the vinegar, lemon juice, and zest with the shallot and Dijon mustard. In a thin, steady stream, whisk in the olive oil until emulsified. Season with salt, pepper and herbs.
Mix the dressing with the kale about 20 minutes before serving and massage the dressing into the kale. Let the dressing marinate the lettuce. Before serving add the Parmesan and more salt and pepper.